The influence of peer groups become increasingly important as children reach adolescence. This is a normal stage of development where a child begins to pull away from the family group to find security in their peer group.
- If your child feels valued and accepted at home he/she will be less inclined to go too far with negative peer pressures.
- Let your child know you trust him/her to make good decisions.
- Set limits but let the little things go.
- A strong, caring connection with parents is essential.
- Be there emotionally for your children. Their need for you to LISTEN keeps this connection strong.
- During adolescence, communication and activities with the family may decrease. Find new ways to connect based on your child’s interests.
- Ask your adolescent what he thinks, rather than telling him your opinion first. You’ll find out what he is thinking by listening.
- Give your child some space. They value and need privacy and solitude.
