Conflict is a natural part of family life. Conflict can teach young children how to deal with other people, how feelings affect behavior and how to be assertive.
- Acknowledge your child’s feelings. Your children will not always get what they want in conflict but his/her feelings can always be recognized.
- Avoid personal attacks and global statements. Instead give your perspective using “I” statements.
- Limit the number of choices you give. Too many choices can be confusing and overwhelming. Present two or three possible options and let your child choose from them.
- Aim for solutions that are win-win for yourself and your child.
- Look at the conflict as a problem to be solved rather than a contest to be won. Involve your child in making decisions and don’t be afraid to make compromises.
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