It’s routine to teach kids how to read, write, and even how to paint or how to run the dishwasher. It’s not customary to teach kids how to nurture their own self-esteem, though it’s the most important thing they can learn.
- Allow your child to discover talents. Allow him to try various sports, hobbies, and activities. Encourage him to apply himself to the things he enjoys.
- Assign your child household chores. Chores help a child feel like a capable responsible, skilled and trusted member of the family.
- Don’t hover, protect, and rescue your child. Let him learn through his trials, struggles and mistakes.
- Compliment your child daily using sincere, specific praise.
- Help your child develop a more positive way of looking at life. Gently correct his pessimistic statements. When he says, “I can’t do it,” respond, “Take your time and try again, I have confidence in you.”
- Make sure you are showing your child unconditional love on a daily basis. Say it with your words, your actions, and your heart.
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