Teens and Peers

The influence of peer groups become increasingly important as children reach adolescence. This is a normal stage of development where a child begins to pull away from the family group to find security in their peer group.<!–more–>
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<li>If your child feels valued and accepted at home he/she will be less inclined to go too far with negative peer pressures.</li>
<li>Let your child know you trust him/her to make good decisions.</li>
<li>Set limits but let the little things go.</li>
<li>A strong, caring connection with parents is essential.</li>
<li>Be there emotionally for your children. Their need for you to LISTEN keeps this connection strong.</li>
<li>During adolescence, communication and activities with the family may decrease. Find new ways to connect based on your child’s interests.</li>
<li>Ask your adolescent what he thinks, rather than telling him your opinion first. You’ll find out what he is thinking by listening.</li>
<li>Give your child some space. They value and need privacy and solitude.</li>
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